Wednesday, November 28, 2012

a moment with Lacey


A moment with Lacey


The other day I was sitting at the table coloring with Lacey when a man with a big beard walked by. Lacey pointed out the window and exclaimed, “No! No! You Go!!” I looked at the man and back at Lacey, “But Lacey, don’t you like his beard?!”  She gave me the evil eye, shook her head and once again said, “No!” So I looked out at the man and then back at Lacey and tried again, “Ooooh, I get it…you like your men clean-shaven, don’t you Lacey?” She looked down, wrinkled her nose and smiled, “yea” she said with the tenderness of a mother soothing her baby. 

*names changed to protect privacy

Monday, November 26, 2012

Bill and Lacey:A Humorous Moment


      I work at a home for people with intellectual disabilities. There are only two wonderful residents in my particular home. 
     The other day Bill drew a picture. He takes great pride in his pictures. We hang many of them on the fridge and even made a picture binder so people can flip through and admire his creations. He seemed to be working on this particular picture very diligently. He chose the exact colors that he wanted—maroon, and brown. In the end, he slammed his crayon down, looked up, smiled, and laughed his rye laugh. It sounds more like a cackle. I picked up his picture, looked at it, and told him that it was pretty. Then I made a poor choice. I asked him what it was. He pointed at the maroon and brown splotches, “It’s Lacey!” He proclaimed this with great pride. Unfortunatley, Lacey (in a maroon shirt, by the way) did not take his Lacey-esque splotches as a compliment, “NOOOO, NOOO, NOOOO!” After the “no’s” she went into hissing spitwords under her breath. He still looked proud as the ice began to crack under my feet. It was a lose-lose situation. If I told Lacey she didn't look so splotchy, Bill would feel bad. If I told Bill it was beautiful, Lacey would take offense.      
    So I sat and looked from Bill... to Lacey... and back. And Bill sat, smiled, and looked from his picture... to Lacey... and back. And Lacey sat and hissed spitwords at the floor. 

*Names are changed!!